The world of homeschooling is changing. It’s no longer exclusively long skirts and religious fundamentalists. Instead, it’s doctors and lawyers, soccer moms, and people who’ve decided they’ve had enough of the American education system.
According to the National Home Education Research Institute, it’s estimated that over two million kids are now homeschooled, up 75 percent since 1999, and those numbers continue to rise. Within the next five to 10 years, expect to see exponential growth as more and more people get fed up with the system and recognize the benefits homeschooling brings.
When you think back on your own education, you probably remember a huge focus on reading, writing, and arithmetic, but you know that’s not the case with today’s youth. With Common Core, it now takes abstract thinking to understand that 7+8=15. Instead of the KISS principle (Keep It Simple Stupid) of simply adding seven and eight, our children do this: 7+3=10, 8-3=5, 5+10=15, therefore 7+8=15. Or this: 7+7=14, 7+1=8, 14+1=15, therefore 7+8=15. What happened to just teaching them 7+8=15?
What it comes down to is that the American school system is failing our children in so many ways. It’s forgotten to teach our children how to learn. When children learn how to learn, they understand how to think and problem solve. Learning becomes something fun that they naturally crave to do, not something that’s required because it’s going to be on a standardized test.
And are the school systems preparing the nation’s kids for life after high school? Heck no. Instead of detailing what they are learning, here’s a list of some of the life skills children aren’t learning in school:
People homeschool for a variety of reasons. Some want more of a say in their children’s education, and for others, homeschooling makes travel possible. And then there are those who pull their children out of public schools because of medical issues, behavioral challenges, or bullying.
But there’s even more reasons to consider homeschooling. Here are just a few:
What it comes down to is what kind of life do you want your children to have? What kind of life do you want them to live? If the traditional public or private school system isn’t providing it, then it’s up to you to do so.
Even though homeschooling sounds fantastic – which it can be – there are other things to consider. Here are some of the most important:
Homeschooling has other benefits as well: Namely avoiding the left-wing, anti-Christian and anti-American indoctrination of public schooling. Most readers are probably familiar with the Marxist agenda pushed in post-secondary education. However, less known is that this agenda is prevalent and powerful even in elementary school. The indoctrination that takes place in college is largely made possible by the indoctrination that takes place over the course of 12 years in public education – and frankly, the private schools aren’t much better these days.
We have ample examples of extreme ideological education in our nation’s schools. For instance, four states currently require “LGBT history” to be taught. You can easily find curricula for teaching transgender ideology in elementary schools online. Elementary schools have likewise begun teaching young children about “white privilege” ideology.
Are these extreme cases? Surely, but it is their extremity that makes them noteworthy. Because of its size, California often determines what is taught in America’s classrooms. Textbooks must sell there. So what’s taught in San Francisco and New York today will be taught in your town as well.
But there's a broader question of indoctrination. By this we don’t mean “teaching children things we don’t like,” nor do we propose that the solution is more conservative and libertarian teachers. The problem isn’t children being indoctrinated in the “wrong” values, but the indoctrination of children – period.
Indoctrination is propagandizing at children in any form rather than providing them with critical reasoning skills. The lack of thought is what makes for indoctrination. Young people should not have a worldview propagandized at them. They should be provided with critical thinking and formal logic skills to reason out solutions for themselves.
There is no evidence that the public schools can ever be anything more than indoctrination centers. The prevailing ideologies of the time will always predominate in this environment. Indeed, these were the grounds on which John Stuart Mill opposed state education, though he did favor government subsidies to provide the poor with access to schooling. It’s not necessary for there to be an all-encompassing conspiracy to hoodwink children. Even if most school teachers were on the same level, one would still be putting their children in the hands of an agenda controlled by the left-wing teachers union and Department of Education – the heavy hitters in the education industry.
The failures of traditional schooling go far beyond one child’s experience. There is a broader social problem when entire generations are indoctrinated in ideologies hostile toward Christianity, America and freedom – especially when these generations aren’t provided with the skills to “think” their way out of the box that traditional education has put them in.
Turn on the news to see the real-world consequences of traditional education. We are seeing the flaws in this system manifest in extreme ways every day.
If you think homeschooling may be the right choice for you and your children, here’s how to get started.
While homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, each state has its own regulations. To find out the laws in your state, check the Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) website. Things that fall under state regulation include the age at which a child must start school, how many mandatory school days and hours, what kinds of records must be kept, what subjects must be taught, and if there is a specific curriculum that should be in place.
Also find out your state’s process for notifying the school district of your decision to homeschool, what paperwork must be completed, and how to enroll in the state’s standardized testing.
When it comes to picking your children’s curriculum, the choices can be overwhelming. Instead of getting lost in the options, browse programs to see which matches your teaching philosophies and goals. Read reviews, and search homeschooling forums to see what people say about the ones you’re considering. If the price tag weighs heavy on your options, don’t worry – there are plenty of affordable programs available and you can even find some that are free.
When considering curriculums, pay attention to teaching methods. Some curriculums primarily rely on videos, while others have a heavy reading slant. Choose one that works best with your children’s learning styles and interests, as well as your own teaching methods, to make homeschooling more enjoyable for everyone.
Depending on what type of curriculum you decide to go with, you’ll also need supplies. Many curriculum packages come with books, videos, and worksheets, but you may want to incorporate other things – such as picture books that reinforce ideas or hands-on activities to see concepts in action.
Because each child has a mandatory set amount of days he or she must be in school, you’ll need to make sure you provide learning on those days, which is easily accomplished through lesson planning. When you lesson plan, you’re less likely to get distracted, keeping your children on track throughout the school day and the year.
When you’re building your lesson plans, remember to utilize the benefits of homeschooling. Plan in activities and field trips to show your children real-life applications of the concepts they’re learning in the classroom. If there are specific lessons you want your children learn, be sure to incorporate them into your lesson plans.
Determine a Schedule
When it comes to homeschool scheduling, you have a lot of freedom, both day to day and throughout the year. Just because the traditional school system has seven to eight subjects a day, every day, doesn’t mean you have to. Subjects can be blocked off by the semester, taught every day, or once a week. Certain subjects, such as math, reading, writing, and spelling are based on skill development and should be done regularly, while others like literature, geography, and science don’t need the daily repetition.
You’re also able to set your own daily schedule, one that works well with your family and its needs. If you don’t want to start your school day until everyone’s had breakfast and chores are complete, that’s fine. But whatever you do, stick to your schedule. Without it, things quickly become disorganized and chaos ensues.
Organization is the key to successful homeschooling. From physical organizers to keep schoolwork tidy to containers for art supplies, you need to organize when you homeschool. Having a designated area to do schoolwork is also important. It not only keeps everything and everyone together, but it helps you get into the school mindset. If work is done in the living room with the television on, there’s not a whole lot of information being retained. But if your child sits down at the same desk each day to do his or her work, the brain automatically kicks into learning mode.
Just like a teacher, you must have rules in the classroom and expect them to be obeyed. And if one student acts out, you can’t stop the school day to deal with his or her behavior. There are lessons that need to be covered and things that need to be learned, and that’s why you need a specific set of school day rules. While some of these may be your normal house rules – things like no yelling or always tell the truth – others may be more specific to school, such as no phones between the hours of 10am and 2pm. Once your rules are established, post them somewhere visible so both you and the children remember what they are..
When a rule gets broken, both you and the child should know what the consequence is going to be. Some homeschooling parents use a three-strikes-and-you're-out rule, which consists of an hour-long detention where either extra school work or chores are assigned. Others may issue a timeout to help the child regroup and refocus. If there’s work that didn’t get completed because of negative behaviors, it’s given as homework and the student must complete it after regular lessons are completed.
Perhaps more important than disciplining your child when he or she breaks the rules, is remembering to reinforce positive behaviors. The more good behavior is encouraged, the more you’re likely to see it. Daily sticker charts work well for younger students and older children are often receptive to working towards a class goal, such as a movie or ice cream.
The kids must remember their rules, but you need to remember yours as well. Here are five rules that every homeschooling parent should follow:
In the traditional classroom, each student has a job he or she is responsible for, and the same thing should be true for the homeschooled student. Schedule in clean-up time, as well as household duties and chores that each child is responsible for – including dishes, sweeping the floor, or wiping the counter. This teaches children responsibility and accountability, and reinforces the idea of the family as a team.
If you’ve already started talking to your friends and family about homeschooling, you probably realized not everyone is going to support you. People will tell you that you’re crazy, that you’re damaging your kids for life, and that there’s no way you or your kids are smart enough/behaved enough/organized enough to actually do it. They’ll tell you that you’ll fail. But don’t believe them. You can homeschool and your kids can thrive in that environment. But to do so, you need to have support.
Find other homeschooling parents, join a local homeschooling organization, or follow Facebook groups and blogs. By giving yourself access to others in the homeschooling realm, you find support, gain confidence, and give yourself a plethora of information and experience at your fingertips. Other homeschooling parents help you come up with ideas, share curriculums, and even coordinate field trips and afterschool activities. Plus, these parents understand. They get why you’re homeschooling your children and encourage you to keep going, and perhaps that’s the thing you need more than anything else.
If you’re wondering if homeschooling is right for your family, only you can answer that. Spend some time researching homeschooling options, reach out to other homeschooling families, and figure out how your life has to adapt to make homeschooling fit. Check out reputable websites and communities for homeschooling, including the HomeSchool.com, and national and local homeschooling associations to learn more.
Youth Homeschooling: A Smart Parent's Guide to Successfully Homeschooling Children originally appeared in The Resistance Library at Ammo.com.