I know I did the wrong thing by going through my daughter's bag... but I'm so shaken by what I found. Should I confront her? Tread carefully says CAROLINE WEST-MEADS... here's why

I want to talk to her, but I'm afraid she'll be angry and feel betrayed. At the same time, I don't want to shame her or make her think she can't come to me in the future. Caroline West-Meads answers...